The Significance of Titles
Using titles often signifies respect or acknowledgment of a person’s qualifications or status. In formal contexts, it’s appropriate to use these titles; however, it is not mandatory. For instance, at the Nwerong or Nfuh lodge, one may be called Tantoh or Ta-Gwei, while family members might address them as Pa or Daddy at home, and in school, simply as Ngeh/Gwei or Mr. Ngeh/Gwei. To identify someone, civil status documents should be the reference, yet individuals have the right to choose their preferred form of address and the main identification document we know is the national identity card let check if it has a title there.
As noted by Sir Ralp, bro, Ralp or Mr. Kimbi (the last time I asked him how he would prefer me to address him and he didn't have a preference) do not contain titles. What if the use of these titles brings discrimination and division instead of love and unity? In informal settings, introducing ourselves simply as Cornelius and Ralp will foster equality and respect for human rights; however, the moment we use titles like Prof./Hon. Ralp and Cornelius, we invite discrimination. This will manifest in how our host will allocate seats, food, and drinks, reinforcing social hierarchies.
I think Tabenken knew this a long time ago and one Pa Kari of Njire who owned a bar at the market changed his name to 'Kooamffu' to teach this same lesson —'kooamffu' literally translates to big by "feathers" or "titles." In the GA in Bafoussam, Dr. Tanya wondered why there were so many traditional titles nowadays, explaining that in their day, it wasn’t so common to see people having titles like today.
If I'm a pedagogue and I enter a class to teach a topic in computer science, such as robotics, I should not rely on applause or acknowledgment to validate my teaching. If I master robotics well, the effectiveness of my teaching speaks for itself even if students don't clap for my traching or clap. When we depend on approval and praise, it means we are focused on feathers/ titles rather than content; true expertise does not need the embellishment of titles—it stands on its own merit.
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